
Will Fox
I’m 33 and grew up in Ealing, West London. I work as an Account Director in my current job and have a background in media, previously working for Sky TV and EMAP.
WING CHUN
I went to my first Wing Chun Class on Friday September 17th 1999 – I was 25. When I say ‘Wing Chun Class’ it was more of a lecture really, going through the theory and focusing as much on what Wing Chun was not, more than anything else.
I sat and listened carefully at the Academy in South Kensington and several things struck me about the Wing Chun style. It quickly became apparent that I was not going to be learning a sport, or starting classes to keep fit, or indeed entering competitions for medals and trophies. I would be starting Wing Chun for self defence only – or in the words of my previous teacher ‘to protect myself from violent attack’. After a few months learning the basics of Wing Chun I also began studying Qi Gong – a meditation class, which helped me with stress management and concentration.
The academy in South Kensington was where I met Sifu ‘B’, who was the most senior instructor at the school. Aside from mentioning Sifu’s consummate skill as a martial artist I would like to start by talking about two of the most important values I have learned with his help, which are rarely mentioned in most martial art schools – kindness and compassion.
It may seem strange to some people, reading a testimony on Wing Chun and B Flanders Sifu, to discuss kindness and compassion first, in the context of learning an aggressive fighting style. However, I feel that gaining a greater understanding of kindness and compassion was a paramount part of my personal development together with the responsibility that went with learning practical combat techniques. B Flanders Sifu guided me in my progress, and I soon understood where my misplaced aggression was coming from – fear. I was simply worried about being attacked, and having nothing to offer if attacked. I went out to clubs / bars in Ealing and the West End witnessing many fights, assaults and muggings over the years. I would consciously be on the look out for potential troublemakers, outwardly seeming hostile and unapproachable – in the simplest form I was telling potential assailants to keep away – trying to create the impression I wasn’t worth the trouble.
As I trained and my confidence increased, my fear subsided and my perspective completely changed. I soon learnt that rather than establishing what I could do in terms of my skill – i.e. showing off, it was far more constructive to find out what I couldn’t do, and explore my limitations. I soon put fighting out of my mind, suddenly I had a window to look through beyond my own anxiety and stress. As my fear reduced, my interaction with people transformed and I could start to see that I had been studying my own human nature – a great experience of discovery.
WHY I LIKE SIFU’S SCHOOL
There is no bullying or intimidation in Sifu’s school. The atmosphere is relaxed and the focus on learning and guidance – the students are not egotistical and are welcoming. The lessons are a sanctuary from the outside world, where one can forget about everything else and concentrate on personal development. I also like the fact that everything on the Wing Chun syllabus is included in the standard lesson fees – for example, you are not charged extra for learning fundamental techniques such as the wooden dummy.
The emphasis on practical self-defence and combat is excellent, learning from someone with experience in real life confrontations is invaluable. With an awful lot to learn, the smaller classes and private tuition provided are a must for someone like me who likes to progress at their own pace. Having known B Flanders Sifu for nearly a decade I would recommend his classes to anyone. Sifu is extremely patient, kind and has a great ability to bring out the best in people.
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